2014, going on 2015
I’m thankful for a great year. Thankful for supportive family, great friends, and understanding bosses and colleagues.
2014 has been eventful, busy and challenging. It has been a year of many lessons. I learned how to balance work and family, how to become a better manager at work, and last but not least, juggle two kids as a new mother of two. Rewarding, but tough, to say the least.
From a mothering perspective, I picked up where I left off for all things baby, and did the right thing in getting a 24/7 help during the confinement period. I rested better than the first. I took charge of caring for the baby (with family support of course) right from the start and as a result, was able to exclusively breastfeed Kaira from September. However, I suspect this would change when I return to work in Jan.
These past few months off have also enabled me to step back, take as much time as I want to think carefully of what I want to do, where and how I envision myself to be the person I want to be when I head back to the workforce. One thing for sure, I am firing up to be someone different, someone better. I would like to believe that new mothers are not subtly discriminated at work, and that they can be just as competent, productive, and efficient at work. We just need a supportive working and familial environment to make that happen. We should be given equal opportunities (if we are good), and then leave it up to us to make choices for ourselves. Next year, I hope to be a living example for many working mothers out there. I know there are more intricacies, but I choose to believe in this mantra knowing this is the best for my family in the longer run. And this mantra is that career and family can marry together. We just need (and have) to be smart with things and make smarter decisions.
My kids – where do I start with them? They are the best things that have happened in my life, my two daughters. And I am willing to give the best for them. Since she attended school in March, Tara has taken the interest to speak. And when I say speak, I mean talk. Non stop. Like a chatterbox. She’s an inquisitive girl who asks alot of questions about everything under the sun, and never fails to amaze me with new words and sentences every day. At 2.5 years old, Tara is clearly a conversationalist, someone who also has a strong mind of her own. She loves green, and prefers Thomas the Tank Engine to Minnie Mouse.
Kaira, oh my baby Kaira. She is turning six months next month, and is taking after a lot of her big sister’s traits – very sociable and also very grumpy. But she’s generally a very happy baby and I will definitely miss caring and being around her when I start work. I am looking forward to the day she starts on solids, and when her sister can start playing together proper. Kaira, I just want to say that I am so lucky to be your mother. I must have done something right to deserve you, my beautiful baby. I can feel that my breastfeeding journey will come to a premature end, but now, at this point, I cherish the moments I have you in my arms and being able to give and provide you with the sweetest and yummiest food that make you plunge into food coma every single meal.
Lastly, for me and Romil, 2015 is serious business. Both at the work and personal department. We need to focus a little more on ourselves. We need to be healthy for ourselves and our kids. We need to make smart diet choices and make a point to exercise and lose weight. We need to look good for each other and ourselves. We have been great parents (I think) but need to be better partners for each other. And we will do it together.
Bring it on now, 2015!